A: I really love you and wish you could be my girlfriend.
B: You love me? But why?
A: Cause you're nice, bla bla bla and dot dot dot ...
B: How can you say you love me when you don't even know me? Don't you even know what love is?
A: I do know you.
B: What are the ten things I love and hate? What am I like? What is my personality like? What is my identity like?
A: umh ...
Seriously, do you even know what love it truly about?
Love takes a long time to develop, especially girls. It takes a long time to know if you truly love a person. There's just so much to know and learn.
But, really ... what is love? How do you know you really love a person? What would you do if you really love a person. I don't believe in flattery words. I believe in actions in love. Actions speak louder than words. If you say you love me, show it to me.
When I love a person, I would go the distance for this person. I would go as far as I can to talk to this person, spend time with this person, do something special for this person. I would be close to this person and this person's surroundings, accepting his family and friends. Basically, I would do anything for this person.
"Love is patient, love is kind. It does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trust, always hopes, always perseveres." - 1 Corinthians13:4-7
Don't say I love you when you don't show it. It takes a lifetime to know a person inside out.
If you think you like a person, don't say I love you. Get to know the person inside out first for a year before you step into it. Be friends first and see how things goes. God always has a final say. Focus on God and let him lead your life. Don't let relationships be your main focus. Let God be your MAIN FOCUS. For it's said in Matthew 6:33 "Seek first HIS kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you"
Trust God, he has a great plan for your life. Don't destroy God's plan but follow it.
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love's bout loving a person for who the person is n showing care as an appreciation to the person :) n also sharing lots of wonderful memories together, haha ;) -joel
ReplyDeleteGood one, Joel :). Much agreed :).
ReplyDeleteLove ... doing everything for the person. Even if she hurt me in the past, I will forgive her and still do things for her. I will do anything shelasks me to do. I will always be by her side supporting her. I will make her smile and laugh everyday. I will not make her cry or angry. I will see her everyday. I will talk to her everyday. I will buy her gifts everyday. I will take her out everyday. :))
ReplyDeleteTotally. =))
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